Wednesday 23 March 2016

I Am Not Odejimi - My Evolution series 7


She took my hands and held it firmly like one who was going to the principal's office for punishment and the veins could speak at that moment, it would be shut and mute.

While on our way out, I could notice myself jested by other colleagues. Most especially for the fact that Rachael of an elegant and splendid nature was with a villager. I was made to understand that lots of guys had approached her but she didn't consent in.

Many think she's bossy. That's because her physique is almost like a footballer. But she doesn't. After walking our way down to the bursar's office, I heard her greeting like one would greet her father.

She knelt down properly like the typical African girl child would do. And she called after in a daddy manner. It was later I realised she wasn't born here. She was forced back here to start her tertiary education out of her will for reasons I don't know.

Her father is the heir to a popular throne. I was amazed when I heard her tell me all these. Most amazingly, the way she behaves shows she didn't lose her values and traits as an African child despite her upbringing.
After her father's office, we left for another lecture which is the last for the day. We sat side by side and it looks like I've never had a fun and interesting lecture before. She made the boring and sleepy hour craving.

I was so exited I was looking forward to the end of the class. I suggested we sit under a tree on one of those concrete blocks. We stayed there for hours which didn't look like half a minute compiled together.
There and then I knew I was getting a better treatment and attention from someone who sees me not like the village boy. But beyond. But I was still in love with Ajoke. How would I do that?

"You're still young for that" my father's words retorted back in my head.
"You aren't ready for commitment. Love is beyond what you see my son. Once you're committed, it goes down to what you can and have to do. Love is time"

Somewhere, somehow, the conclusion of me enjoying the time while it last popped. Just then I saw Ajoke whose neck was all round wrapped like a village snake. I excused Racheal and went to pay homage.

"Good afternoon was what I was able to say".
Staring at the man or should I say boy's physique. He's way taller than I am. Had a nice hair cut and the clothes looked very very expensive. Let me not refer to his gold chain and watch.

Immediately I uttered those words, his fantastic smile was becoming weary and oh yes! He had this thing they call dimple. Heard it once when ladies in the faculty were discussing about how they want their lovers facials to be. And I remembered the particular girl expressing hers made hand gestures like one drilling a hole in the cheeks.

He immediately excused us and told Ajoke to call him. Or maybe I didn't hear well. Call him? When did Ajoke started using telephone? Or did she bring those round rings telephone with here?

"Oh dear! I will when I'm done" she answered.

"Yeah what's up brother?" Didn't hear her well or did she just put me in the brother zone? Who was I to her? No answers that's because I was asking myself. Comport yourself repeated thrice in my head and I headed in.

"I've been searching for you all this while but you know how big the school is, I don't know where exactly to find you"

"Right down there is my lecture hall and my faculty.." She paused.
"...well, what and why have you been searching for me?"
"Now you know where to find me."

She was about walking away. Damn! That looked like been blocked a mile away by LeBron.

Didn't know what solid food I swallowed that made me draw her back from two steps away from me.

"But you know I am in the same varsity with you. Atleast you should ask after me. Why are you doing like this? Why have you suddenly changed from the Ajoke I knew" didn't know what courage I summoned there.

This time she was surprised and calm at the same time.

"Just take a look at yourself. See how dressed you are in the campus. Has it ever come accross to you how odd you are? What would I be doing with a low villager like you?"
Wait did she just say all those? A villager like me?

"But we are from the same village you're classifying lowly. It's this same village you were raised and even schooled. This same village was where you would fetch water with your pot and even take a swerve at my father's farm just so you can see me." I shouted in a tush manner.

She stood her ground firmly and she said...

Stay tuned!!!

PEAZOUT!!

For The Ladies - Ignorance Isn't An Excuse


💯✔SAVE THE VAGINA NOW!!!
To maintain a healthy vagina you must know what to do to avoid infection and it is equally important to educate your sexual partner on some of them to also help you help the vagina.
Here are some few things you can do or avoid.

1. Fingering
During foreplay or romance, as part of it some people insert their finger or fingers into the vagina. The question is, how many people wash their hands before sexual intercourse? Some people do not even keep their nails clean so it gathers a lot of germs and during the fingering, these germs are deposited in the vagina...leading to infection. Same thing apply to auto pleasure acts or masturbation.

2. Anal sex
I am not here to tell anybody to have anal sex or not to but I simply want to draw the attention of those who engage in anal sex with the opposite sex that it is dangerous to have anal sex and continue having penovaginal sex. If this is done, the penis will pick bacteria from the anus and deliver them to the vagina even if you are using a condom....which will lead to infection.

3. Quest to make the vagina TIGHT
Some guys complain bitterly about the vagina of their sexual partners. They complain that it's too big and they no more feel any sensation during intercourse. Some ladies are therefore pushed to find a quick solution and in the process some use herbs or other substances in the vagina with the hope of making the vagina tight. Some of the substances cause infection or sepsis. Some of the herbs can cause the vagina to get tighter to the extent that penetration is no more possible. This will require treatment.

4. Douching
Some parents, when bathing for their baby girls put warm water in a milk tin or dip a towel in the warm water and pour the water through a hole made beneath the tin or squeeze the water out of the towel into the vagina of the baby. This is sooooo WRONG as it can damage the hymen.
Some parents also insert ginger or pepper or both into the vagina of adolescents as a form of punishment. This is sooooo WRONG as it can lead to infection.
Some people are use to bathing by adding dettol or other detergents to the water and they put this solution inside the vagina with the help of sponge or towel or just the hand with soap to clean the vagina. This is soooo WRONG as it will change the normal flora in the vagina, leading to infection.

5. Use of water closet
Some people have the habit of not sitting on the seat of the WC when using it so they end up urinating on the seat. The possibility of picking infection when using it in that condition is high. Don't let your pant be at the thigh level when using the WC especially the public ones as the inner of the pant may rub the surface of the WC. Where the water is not running and people have used but have not flushed and you don't have any choice but to also use it, use enough toilet roll to cover before using the WC to avoid any splashes on the vulva.

6. Washing and drying
Develop the habit of disinfecting your panties frequently...depending on the number of pants you have. Keep exclusive panties to wear whenever you are menstruating and don't mix those panties with your regular panties. Pay particular attention to those panties when washing. Ensure that the panties are made of cotton and are dried in the sun or well ironed to kill germs.

7. Change sanitary pads
Some people try to economize the use of their sanitary pads so during the period they tend to still wear the pad because there is little or no blood. This is soooo WRONG as it can lead to infection.

NB: If there is any bad scent from the vagina or there is a discharge coming from the vagina then it might be an infection which you have to have it treated.
Help save the vagina by ensuring that you get the message to as many friends as possible. Help save the vagina by getting the message to your sexual partner or sisters.❤❤