I hear people say "I'm so giving up now". I don't think I can do this anymore. And I will be like seriously? You've come this far to offer such a statement. Most times, such statements are said out of frustration. There's no two way thing about this. When you're set and hoping and man keeps failing you. At first, the encouragements will troop in and your head will be so elated.
And then you see you're nose diving way too much more than you can imagine. And you just see few people left behind to say "keep moving".
I tell you categorically! Quitting can be the best option. But then, if you ask me. What would I say to such person who has been all positive for what he/she does and suddenly, the negativity is unbearable.
One, have you found a new love?
What do I mean by this!? Even in our day-to-day activities and relationship with people, we switch things up. Probably, your present client has developed some characters you can't handle. Sure, you quit doing business with such. Now don't get me wrong. Of course, you must have done some counselling and every possible way to scold and retire the person back to normal. And once efforts are becoming fruitless, you withdraw yourself.
The way God does his things are unquestionable. He makes life teach us and beat us till we say we are sorry. His ways are totally different from ours. We propose and God disposes.
It's only when you've found a new love you will be so sure of making do away with the former. And without this, it's only going to be frustration upon frustration. And if care isn't taken, it will lead to suicide.
When you have love for what you do, it's absolutely so great. You can't imagine the accommodation you get. But that isn't enough.
An undying love is actually the best. You can't fulfill and touch lives if you don't persistently love yourself.
I was somewhere today and someone made a statement "You are being scold left, right, back front and centre. And you think it's all suffering. It's only for you good and when you eventually make it, you will first remember yourself before remembering anyone else"
He continued and said This is my fifth car and I haven't even bought one for my dad"
But he makes sure his Dad is living fine.
I'm not saying you should be selfish. But before you can extend the hands of love to others, you first start with yourself. Forget the social media life. I don't believe in all that. We have to face the reality and remember you walk in your own shoes and not others. So you alone knows where the shoe is pinching you.
You might have started a business or a creative act for years and your expectations doesn't seem coming through. And after all the sufferings, God decides to explore that other talent of yours that seems it's not working and you won't make pay out of it to make it.
2 years you're into the game and your fame is publicised more than you can ever imagine. That's it. There's nothing you can do outside what God has planned for you. You can think and have multiple degrees in good professional studies and likely to be what you don't even study at all.
Just know that THE SHORT RUN CAN SOMETIMES BE BETTER THAN THE LONG RUN. KEEP BELIEVING IN YOURSELF AND WHAT YOU HAVE. KNOW THAT GOD ISN'T ASLEEP NEITHER IS HE DEAD. MOST OF IT ALL, LOVE YOURSELF