You know how they Say one man's large toilet is another man's passage. One man's meat is definitely another man's beef. The problem with our society now is trying to imitate others seeing that they are successful and everything is working fine for them. They also want to try that business option and at the end of the tunnel they see its more darker than the beginning.
Just because one celebrity marriage is fine and you see them almost everywhere on the red carpet, social media and all, you think putting your partners picture on social media is the only way you truly love him. You don't know how much fire those couples have quenched before they're seen smiling here and there.
Except you have passion for what you do, you can't succeed in another man's track. And only if it's your divine career, you can't wear Usain Bolt's track shoes and expect to be as fast as he his on the track field. I will keep saying the only think you can do before any other thing is go on your knees and pray. Pray fervently and ask God for what exactly you will do that will prosper the works of your hands.
There's no damage that will be caused if you are yourself. Being yourself is the best feeling and you don't know how elated you will be seeing yourself as a role model in one little way.